{"id":73932,"date":"2016-09-02T16:57:04","date_gmt":"2016-09-02T15:57:04","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/zakrasnejsivimperk.cz\/?p=73932"},"modified":"2017-04-21T07:01:40","modified_gmt":"2017-04-21T06:01:40","slug":"zmeny-a-zivot-ano-babi-ja-se-snazim-ale-nekdy-to-taky-neni-tak-pravda-inu-co-se-da-delat-zivot-plyne-dal","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zakrasnejsivimperk.cz\/?p=73932","title":{"rendered":"ZM\u011aNY A \u017dIVOT: Ano babi, j\u00e1 se sna\u017e\u00edm, ale n\u011bkdy to taky nen\u00ed tak pravda. Inu, co se d\u00e1 d\u011blat, \u017eivot plyne d\u00e1l"},"content":{"rendered":"

M\u016f\u017ee prost\u0159ed\u00ed \u010dlov\u011bka zm\u011bnit nebo ovlivnit?\u00a0Kdy\u017e jsem byla mal\u00e1, \u010dasto jsem sl\u00fdch\u00e1vala od babi\u010dky, \u017ee ten nebo ten se zm\u011bnil, jenom proto, \u017ee se dostal k\u00a0moci nebo pen\u011bz\u016fm.<\/em><\/p>\n

Pozd\u011bji jsem sly\u0161ela n\u00e1zor jednoho p\u00e1na. To ne, \u017ee by se zm\u011bnili lid\u00e9. Ono to toti\u017e v nich je, ale dostali p\u0159\u00edle\u017eitost a jen se projevil jejich charakter. Tak to mi moc nepomohl si ujasnit, \u00a0jak to vlastn\u011b je.<\/em>
\n Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee oba v\u00fdroky jsou pravdiv\u00e9.<\/em><\/p>\n

Jednu takovou malou prom\u011bnu jsem zaznamenala hned doma na sv\u00fdch d\u011btech.\u00a0Nejstar\u0161\u00ed syn vystudoval L\u00e9ka\u0159skou fakultu v\u00a0Plzni. Pracuje jako l\u00e9ka\u0159 v\u00a0nemocnici. Jeho chov\u00e1n\u00ed, vyjad\u0159ov\u00e1n\u00ed a mluva se podstatn\u011b zm\u011bnily. Je ovliv\u0148ov\u00e1n prost\u0159ed\u00edm, kde pracuje a lidmi s\u00a0kter\u00fdmi se st\u00fdk\u00e1.\u00a0 Vystudoval v\u00a0n\u011bjak\u00e9m oboru a tam se c\u00edt\u00ed spokojen\u011b. Nad\u00e1le rozv\u00edj\u00ed svoji osobnost. Co\u017e je dob\u0159e. Naopak n\u00e1m p\u0159ipad\u00e1, \u017ee se hodn\u011b zm\u011bnil.<\/em><\/p>\n

Mlad\u0161\u00ed syn vystudoval policejn\u00ed \u0161kolu a je ve sv\u00e9m oboru moc \u0161ikovn\u00fd.\u00a0 Pr\u00e1ce ale ovlivnila zp\u016fsob jeho \u017eivota. Tv\u00e1\u0159e lid\u00ed prozrad\u00ed mnoho. D\u00edky tomu s\u00a0jak\u00fdmi lidmi se setk\u00e1v\u00e1, dok\u00e1\u017ee opravdu odhadnout povahu druh\u00e9ho nebo i jeho zp\u016fsob \u017eivota. Ov\u0161em n\u011bkdy se mnou mluv\u00ed jak u v\u00fdslechu. Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b, ani\u017e by si to uv\u011bdomil, tak se pak po upozorn\u011bn\u00ed, \u017ee nejsem osoba zadr\u017een\u00e1, oba zasm\u011bjeme.<\/em><\/p>\n

Kdy\u017e n\u00e1m l\u00e9ka\u0159i ozn\u00e1mili, \u017ee posti\u017een\u00ed na\u0161\u00ed dcery je b\u011bh na dlouhou tra\u0165, je\u0161t\u011b jsme ani netu\u0161ili, jakou zm\u011bnu to ud\u011bl\u00e1 v\u00a0jej\u00edm \u017eivot\u011b. \u010casto tr\u00e1vila v\u00a0nemocnic\u00edch a po l\u00e9ka\u0159\u00edch. Co\u017e ji ovlivnilo natolik, \u017ee i \u0161kolu vyb\u00edrala podle toho, kam ji t\u00e1hlo srdce. Nastoupila na St\u0159edn\u00ed soci\u00e1ln\u00ed \u0161kolu. Pr\u00e1ce s\u00a0posti\u017een\u00fdmi d\u011btmi a v\u016fbec s\u00a0nemocn\u00fdmi lidmi vyplnila smysl jej\u00edho \u017eivota.<\/em><\/p>\n

Nejmlad\u0161\u00ed dcerunka se rozhodla odej\u00edt na zku\u0161enou do sv\u011bta. Na\u0161la si agenturu a nastoupila jako Au pair v\u00a0Anglii, nedaleko Lond\u00fdna.\u00a0Nem\u011bla zrovna \u0161t\u011bst\u00ed na rodinu, tak jsme museli trochu zas\u00e1hnout. Nakonec dopadlo v\u0161e dob\u0159e. Agentura ji dala k\u00a0jin\u00e9 rodin\u011b. Ta si ji zamilovala a jsou z\u00a0nich p\u0159\u00e1tel\u00e9. Pozd\u011bji ji nab\u00eddli pr\u00e1ci v\u00a0rodinn\u00e9 restauraci. Ov\u0161em i n\u00e1\u0161 benjam\u00ednek se najednou zm\u011bnil. Kultura zem\u011b, zp\u016fsob \u017eivota v\u00a0t\u00e9to zemi i p\u0159\u00edstup lid\u00ed k\u00a0sob\u011b navz\u00e1jem je absolutn\u011b odli\u0161n\u00fd na\u0161im zvyklostem. A pomy\u0161len\u00ed na n\u00e1vrat? Ani n\u00e1hodou.\u00a0\u0160\u0165astn\u011b se vdala, m\u00e1 byt, pr\u00e1ci a hlavn\u011b \u017eivot v\u00a0pohod\u011b. Je spokojen\u00e1 a to je to nejd\u016fle\u017eit\u011bj\u0161\u00ed.<\/em><\/p>\n

Tak si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee ano, jsme ovlivn\u011bni\u00a0 t\u00edm, jak n\u00e1s rodi\u010de vychovali, v\u00a0jak\u00e9 spole\u010dnosti jsme vyr\u016fstali, s\u00a0jak\u00fdmi lidmi se setk\u00e1v\u00e1me a kde pracujeme.\u00a0Samoz\u0159ejm\u011b do toho spad\u00e1 i to, \u017ee pokud m\u00e1m dostatek pen\u011bz, nemus\u00edm \u0159e\u0161it ur\u010dit\u00e9 finan\u010dn\u00ed situace a tak se budu chovat tak\u00e9 jinak. Jak naj\u00edt ale spr\u00e1vnou rovnov\u00e1hu?<\/em><\/p>\n

V\u00a0\u017eivot\u011b m\u011b hodn\u011b prov\u00e1z\u00ed slova moj\u00ed milovan\u00e9 babi\u010dky: \u201ePamatuj, tak jak chce\u0161, aby se lid\u00e9 k\u00a0tob\u011b chovali, tak se mus\u00ed\u0161 chovat ty k\u00a0nim.\u201c Ano babi, j\u00e1 se sna\u017e\u00edm, ale n\u011bkdy to taky nen\u00ed tak pravda. Inu, co se d\u00e1 d\u011blat, \u017eivot plyne d\u00e1l.<\/em>
\n Co si o tom mysl\u00edte Vy?<\/em><\/p>\n

Petra LITVANOV\u00c1<\/strong><\/p>\n

Foto: Alena KO\u0160OV\u00c1 CILICHOV\u00c1 (kol\u00e1\u017e redakce)<\/p>\n

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